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milindsmart says:
February 5, 2013 at 12:33 am
With relation to the dating scene, nothing much. Whatever you do, start after 18, and finish before 22-24 for girls, and 27-30 for guys. And wrap it all up _for good_ before marriage. And better fucking stay in the marriage, else you get a scandal. Its amazing how simple and doable it sounds. And let me make it quite clear : THIS IS NOT THE WAY IT SHOULD BE IN THE 21ST CENTURY

I mean,
divorce?
particularly notorious relationship during college?
multiple such relationships? “he/she’s ‘THAT’ kind of boy/girl”
not a virgin, and parents get to know?
cheating?
cuckold?

However, I have to say one point is painfully clear from what I know.

Sex is NOT NECESSARY for survival. This is something that has been forgotten in the west. Seriously people, is it that hard to not fuck for some years?

And in that context, I believe I can answer, to some extent, the question of why promiscuity is bad.

Eating, sleeping, breathing are essential to survival. Sanitation, clothing, shelter, human company is necessary for a decent living. Education is necessary for meaningful occupation.

Life has transformed in recent years. Opportunities have exploded, there are thousands of different occupational roles one can take on. There are varieities of recreation, art, science, politics, law, math, yada yada… and yet, in the 21st century, what should we find ourselves FIGHTING tooth and nail for? What fundamental freedom is this?

The freedom to fuck, WHENEVER WE WANT, in CREATIVE WAYS. The same thing we always had for 100000 years and longer! Moreover, to fuck OUTSIDE OF A RELATIONSHIP. And now we’re leading some sort of holy crusade for liberating THAT ONE BASIC INSTINCT, that is too strong currently for survival in this quite safe and nurturing world, not the danger that our ape-ancestors might have had?